MY Wife - My Life

A big Hello to all who will ever read this

 

I have not blogged for ages despite having a feeling to write one every day probably because the topic never forced me or I was just Lazy ( people knowing me will go for the latter )

Then came this time of life when I am a forced bachelor (just for 6 days though) and it made me think a lot about one person – My wife

 

Rest assured I am extremely normal person with no RQ ( romantic Quotient ), none whatsoever. Nor this effort is been made to earn points ( my points tally by now would be –VE infinity )

 

It’s been more than 4 years we have been married and we knew each other 5 years before that being the best buddies( relatively very less time to understand women ) and I still wonder how can such an intelligent, smart, loving, adorable, planned, superbly beautiful person is able to put up with a reckless, brash, totally unplanned, un romantic, lazy guy like me. I must say over these years she has become my favorite person in the world. She is Miss Dependable for me in all sense. Only way I console myself over this, is with the fact that I Proposed her(one of the lousiest proposal in the world) and I am so happy about that moment when I took this call.

 

The amount of energy that she carries every morning makes my Day. It is amazing to see how she is able to manage so many things in one day without creating a fuzz about. She takes care of the house, Cooks, Manages our help ( by the way they are the toughest, even tougher than my Boss ), Keeps the Home together, Worships , Works with a IT firm, Engages in her passion of being Home Chef, Spends Online, Walks some 5-10 Kms a day, Goes for swimming / Zumba and after all this has all the energy in the world to wait for me, follow up with me – One big piece of **** who most of the times is never on time that has been committed.

 

My Babuu is my life. I don’t feel like sitting in my home if she is not there. I just hate it. There are times when I just smile looking at her pic in the most stressed times even in front of my clients during Negotiations. Never did I think, nor even for a nano second that I will LOVE a person so much that just her presence is everything for me, that one HUG , That one Kiss in a day is precious that any Damn possession in this world. I cannot believe such selfless creatures( not literally ) exists and I am SO Blessed to have my BumBum

 

I always respected Women and with Pallavi being around my respect for this tribe has increased Zillion times. They keep us grounded for sure and are the only reason this world is somewhat a better place to be. My only wish is to Have Pallavi by my side like every second ( I always tell her how can she come in my pocket ) and I will live happily

 

TUM ho toh HUM hai, aur agar HUM hai, toh SABKUTCH hai, warna KUTCH BHI nahi.

 

Love you BABU

 

  

Freedom - Handle with care

A lot has been discussed about freedom, and why not . Freedom is not a matter of choice, its one's birthright. From the inception of mankind freedom has been the epicenter of human activities . . . Innumerable wars has been waged to either increase the so called free land or defend the free land. Take any invention - good or bad( i know there is no invention as bad, its the use thats bad), has been done because human being wanted to be free in one sense or other. 

Wheel was invented because man wanted freedom from walking, tiredness. Bows and arrow were invented so that man is free from the pain he took in running behind the prey. Law/rules came in to picture so that human being is free to live his life without nobody's interference.. . . . . and so on ..... 

so the question arises : what is freedom. 

dictionary meaning says : 

1. The condition of being free of restraints

2. A right or the power to engage in certain actions without control or interference

logical ??

In that sense .... who is the one i can tag as free ???  a flying bird ?? a moving snake ??? or lets say was Alexander the great - king of the world free ??? was Vasco de Gama - great explorer free ???? ......... leave all them was Adam - the first man on earth free?? ...........  

The great Mahatma Gandhiji, who led world'd biggest non violent army to freedom failed to hold the same group of humans when they parted on the basis of religion. They were the same people who heard him and gave their lives just like that - without retaliating. . . and they were the same people who ignored him the next day of their freedom. . . . why ???  ....... probably Indians were so desperate to be termed as free, they were not ready to listen to any adjustments. Eventually that freedom tied both countries in so many issues that they will never be free of each other. 

Democracy is one school of thought were there is so called freedom of speech - - - freedom till you finish the speech. . . the next thing you realize is you are dragged and tied up into so many controversies that you tend to forget the difference between democracy and autocracy. . . . . 

Is a dog in the house less free from a dog on the road ??? then what about the freedom from hunger enjoyed by the pet dog compared to street dog ?? is a businessman more free compared to a guy working for a company ?? is a single more free than a couple ??? is live in relation ship more free than a marriage ?? is an atheist more free than a believer ???

i don't think there is an answer to above questions.  

The reason is that . . . . . Freedom is not Free ...... Yes , there is nothing that sets you or any creature free. Freedom comes with its own boundaries. Boundaries which one will have to follow to enjoy being free. In fact boundaries and restrictions are the essence of any freedom. 

Freedom should be handled with care if it has to last long.  

Luv

Rocky   

SALES - the best profession in this world

I know i might be tickling lots of people by the title, but rest assured i am not joking ...

I have been associated with sales now for more than three years, that too in different kind of sales. Before that i was also in operations and after market. though my years of experience is not that much that i should be commenting like this, luckily all the sales i did was related to highest degree of toughness and so i learnt faster.

Why not ???? i mean sales as a profession gives you everything u want in life ......

1. Work life balance - There is no life ...... only work , so no need to balance.

2. Peace of mind - your mind becomes numb of the activities happening around - absolute peace.

3. Attention/respect - you will be wanted by so many dissatisfied customers, your dealers will be after your life due to less margins, your boss anyhow considers you useless and will not leave one minute of nagging, girlfriend/wife will be waiting to shoot you once you reach home(incase)...... gosh so much of importance in life
 
4. Career  Growth - tell me bout this. this you will surely get. there will be growth reported in ur phone bills, petrol bills, stress levels, patience level, ignorance levels, anger levels ...... oh my god ...... i challenge if any other profession can show so much growth ......

5. Responsibility - ohh cmmon ..... if a product fails its you who will be responsible completely and if a product is success its the product responsible completely ........ if the targets are not met its you responsible completely and if the targets are met ... that was expected ( i mean the HQ guys are not dumb to set these easy targets) ......... heights of responsibilities ......

woooohhh

i am sure i proved my point.......

i know after reading my post you might plan to shift to sales ........ :) ..... i suggest .... take a deep breath ..... check if u have enuf balls to go through all that ...... coz inspite of  writing all that ,  i will any day die for sales ..........

Luv

Rocky

If you fail ...its the belief you lack

there has been so many incidents when i felt that i did my best or say i did every thing that was asked and still i failed. We humans are accustomed to find fault with or pass on the blame on circumstances, luck and fate after a certain limit.

I am not saying we dont try hard or harder to get something , i just say in a failure there is one thing lacking from our side and that is belief.

If i look back and analyse my failures or things i did nt achieve on personal and professional front , i didnt realy believed that i wil succeed. I did spoke that i believe but didnt had belief in what i believed. People all around have achieved in worst of circumstances than i was in, and they all cant be lucky.

I mite be late in realizing the importance of really believing in what you do, but i think i can do well for rest of my life .......

:) rocky